intimacy! What does that really mean? Have we really experience this from our peers? What does this word mean to you? Sex, or connection with being open to really knowing that person's heart and soul. Are you able to speak you're truth to the person that you want to be in a relationship for many, many years or a life time? I am with you all about being respectful with each other, but I see that it can even go deeper than that as far as this act of kindness between two people. Can you grow with this man as you and he go through life's changes, on whatever that may be; Step children, ex-wife's, ex-girl friends or just friends with no other attachments. So, back to that question What is it that woman really want in a man? I think you have to ask yourself, what is it as a woman that I can have with a real man and me as a real woman. I think this is the key to really finding the best love you can have in life, yourself and someone to share themselves with you too! From my experience of being in a spiritual relationship on finding you're truth on what is really happening with you and him. it is not easy, but a awakening on breaking patterns that no longer serve you and him. it is so well worth it to live with truth then ignorance. Medicine Woman