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  • author ( 59, woman | Folsom, CA, USA )

    Meeting at a coffee house with big comfy chairs and talking about possibilities? Or lunch at a quaint cafe? Dinner and a movie? I would rather it be a venue that provides opportunity for conversation, but I am not decide...  see more >>

  • author ( 60, man | Sugarloaf, PA, USA )

    First we would meet for a drink and dinner get to know each other to see if we have any interests in common.

  • author ( 51, woman | Warwick, Queensland, Australia )

    coffee or dinner...campdraft, cutting or any horse event ...walking or hiking...I am up for anything really...

  • author ( 55, woman | Estes Park, CO, USA )

    The first meeting is more of a reconnaissance date, so coffee/chai or a cocktail someplace casual where we could chat would be nice.

  • author ( 61, woman | Kempsey, New South Wales, Australia )

    My first date would be coffee in a nice spot by the river--there we could chat get to know a few things about each other and see what happens from there

  • author ( 63, woman | Pickerington, OH, USA )

    meeting for a cup of coffee or a beer to see if there is a connection. When the weather is nice meeting outdoors is a plus.

  • author ( 65, woman | Almonte, ON, CAN )

    i haven't been on a date for so long i have absolutely no idea... i guess a coffee meeting in a very public place - sounds reasonable, right?

  • author ( 74, woman | Cornville, AZ, USA )

    Something simple. Coffee, hike, lunch, etc. "meet and greet" is not a committment but an important step in establishing whether to move forward or not. Chemistry is not manufactured. It either happens or it doe...  see more >>

  • author ( 68, man | Kyneton, Victoria, Australia )

    After chatting for a while to get to know each other I think meeting locally in a public place for a coffee or a drink would be the logical next step.

  • author ( 66, man | Aiken, SC, USA )

    My idea of a perfect first date: If we could be be anywhere in the world for a date for one afternoon or evening, I'd want to go to Ocho Rios, Jamaica We talk about Everything When we're not talking, we're Occupied with...  see more >>

  • author ( 31, woman | Boone, NC, USA )

    Grabbing a cup of coffee together or grabbing a bite to eat. Nothing too formal for a first date. And there's always trail riding!

  • author ( 30, woman | Dunn, NC, USA )

    Well ideally I am really looking for friendship. I suppose we could meet up somewhere like a starbucks and just get to know each other. Going Riding might be cool.

  • author ( 63, woman | Pullman, WA, USA )

    Have a cup of coffee or hot chocolate and chat, get to know each other. If things go well, maybe take a walk and get lunch.

  • author ( 51, man | Logan, UT, USA )

    A cafe is great- as it is a low investment on both parties in time and money, is a safe, secure environment for a woman to meet a new person, etc, and I keep kosher so non-Jewish restaurants are ruled out.

  • author ( 70, woman | Springfield, OH, USA )

    I think a casual meeting is best for the first time that way neither party feels pressured to spend an entire afternoon or evening if there is not "spark." Coffee, a walk, a social hour at a pub all sound perfe...  see more >>