To tell you the truth this all seems a little to controlled to me. From contacting people to communicating with them. It seems like everything else it's all about MONEY. You pay you play other wise you just ride with the flow and jump at the bones. The problem with that is nothing on the net is what it seems and although they say they are the number one match, from this small use of the forum board I don't see it and to spend a fee on a monthly basis to be so let down. Such is the case of the internet a constant letdown. Hahahaha....I knew there was a reason why I was not so excited to jump in the water. I am reading messages here where poor girls and guys are trying to talk to each other but...distance and time and email restrictions are not what it should be. I doubt that I for one will last too much longer on such a site, but good luck to those of you that wish to hang in here.